Roger Fisher & William Ury outlined their methods for principled negotiation in 'Getting To Yes':

In contrast to positional bargaining, the principled negotiation method of focusing on basic interests, mutually satisfying option, and fair standards typically results in a wise agreement. The method permits you to reach a gradual consensus on a joint decision efficiently without all the transactional costs of digging in to positions only to have to dig yourself...

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